productivity #mentalhealth #technology #career
There’s a strange kind of exhaustion that comes from being online all day.
Not physical exhaustion.
Not even the normal kind of work stress.
Something quieter.
The feeling of constantly consuming information but rarely having time to think about any of it.
You wake up and immediately check notifications.
Slack messages. Emails. News. Twitter. LinkedIn. YouTube recommendations. Group chats. AI updates. Productivity hacks.
Before the day even starts, your brain already feels crowded.
And somehow this has become normal.
We Optimized Everything Except Ourselves
Modern technology promised efficiency.
And to be fair, it delivered.
We can:
communicate instantly
automate repetitive work
access infinite information
learn almost anything online
collaborate across continents
Objectively, we’re more productive than ever.
But emotionally?
A lot of people feel overwhelmed all the time.
Because every tool designed to save time also created new expectations.
Email made communication faster so now everyone expects immediate replies.
Remote work increased flexibility so work hours became blurry.
AI tools sped up output so now the expected pace of output increased too.
Technology didn’t just optimize work.
It optimized pressure.
The Hidden Cost of Constant Input
The internet trained us to consume continuously.
A new video before you finish processing the last one.
Another article before you’ve reflected on the previous idea.
Infinite scrolling without pauses long enough for thoughts to settle.
We confuse exposure to information with understanding.
But knowing about something isn’t the same as actually thinking deeply about it.
And deep thinking requires silence.
That’s the part modern internet culture accidentally erased.
Nobody Wants to Feel Behind
Part of the exhaustion comes from the fear of missing something important.
A trend.
An opportunity.
A skill.
A conversation everyone else seems to understand.
So we keep scrolling.
Not because we enjoy it.
Because stopping feels risky.
The internet created an environment where being unavailable for even a few hours can feel like disappearing socially or professionally.
That’s a difficult way for a human brain to live long term.
Productivity Became a Personality
Somewhere along the way, rest started sounding irresponsible.
Everything became optimization:
optimized mornings
optimized workouts
optimized diets
optimized workflows
optimized sleep
optimized hobbies
Even relaxation became performance based.
People track meditation streaks like KPIs.
And social media amplified it all by turning everyone else’s routines into benchmarks for our own lives.
You’re no longer just living your life.
You’re constantly comparing it to thousands of curated versions of other people’s lives.
No wonder people are tired.
The Weird Guilt of Doing Nothing
One of the hardest things now is sitting still without feeling guilty.
No podcast.
No background video.
No productivity goal.
Just silence.
A lot of us forgot how uncomfortable that feels because we rarely experience it anymore.
The internet filled every empty moment:
waiting in line
eating alone
commuting
lying in bed
walking outside
Every pause became another opportunity for stimulation.
But human beings probably weren’t designed to process this much input continuously.
What I’m Trying Instead
I don’t think the answer is deleting everything and moving to a cabin in the woods.
Technology isn’t the enemy.
But I do think we need healthier relationships with it.
Here are a few things I’ve been trying:
1. Consuming slower
Not every article needs immediate attention.
Not every trend matters.
I’ve started letting information arrive slower instead of treating the internet like a firehose I need to drink from.
2. Leaving space between inputs
Reading something interesting and not immediately opening another tab.
Giving thoughts room to settle.
It sounds simple, but it changes how information feels.
3. Being offline on purpose
Not accidentally offline.
Intentionally unavailable.
Even short breaks from constant updates make a noticeable difference in mental clarity.
4. Measuring less
Not every part of life needs metrics.
Some things are better experienced than optimized.
Maybe We Don’t Need More Information
Maybe we need more space to process the information we already have.
More reflection.
More boredom.
More uninterrupted attention.
The internet became incredibly good at capturing human attention.
The challenge now is learning how to protect some of it for ourselves.
One Question Before You Go
What’s something you used to enjoy before it became tied to productivity?
For a lot of people, the answer appears faster than expected.
And that probably says something important.
